Stop judging the parents of naughty children

Many parents feel judged when their children do not behave at all well in public places. Perhaps it has happened to you that when you see that child throwing stones in the park or that child who on your child’s birthday seems to be annoying everyone … the first thing you do is judge the parents, wondering how they are not able to support his son at bay. You might think they are horrible parents.

In realizing, any judgment you make of parents and their children may simply not be accurate. You need to stop judging the parents of naughty children, you want to know why? Here are some reasons.

You don’t know what happens to the child

That child may have experienced difficult moments in his life, such as the death of a close person, the illness of a relative, a car accident, etc. Any traumatic event can affect a child’s behavior. Any stressful event such as the divorce of the parents, who are always arguing … or a move, can also affect them.

They are difficult experiences that affect the development of a child, even when they occur in childhood or in the mother’s pregnancy. For this reason, although it seems that the child is choosing to be defiant towards the world, you do not know what is going on in his mind and heart.

You don’t know what the parents have been through

Parents of a naughty child may have had difficult experiences. Such parents may have lost a child and are in too much emotional pain to discipline their child well today. It may also be that one of the parents has been abused in the past and is having difficulty being a healthy parent to their own children.

Stressful life experiences affect the way parents interact with their children. Parents may also be facing financial problems that cause them to be too concerned about their situation to realize their children’s misbehavior.

In addition to all this, there may be other factors that influence such as that the child has some type of disorder, developmental delay, that parents no longer know what else to do with their child or that the rules of their house are not like yours . Whatever it is, what is paramount is that there is respect and if you are not going to help, then you better not say anything.…

15 things your daughter should know before she turns 10

A daughter is the most beautiful thing that can happen to you in life. It is SHE, and yes, it is in capital letters. She came into your life to change it completely, so that you realize how important women are in society and also how fragile they can be if they are not empowered enough. If you have a daughter, you want her to grow up being strong and knowing that she is the one who must fight and choose her future.

You are in charge of caring for her, protecting her and at the same time giving her the freedom she needs to grow strong. There are some things you should teach your daughter before she is 10 years old. They are essential aspects that you must keep in your heart in order to grow up with a good emotional balance. Don’t miss out on the 10 most important things you shouldn’t forget to teach your daughter.

Things to teach your daughter

It’s okay to get angry from time to time… what matters is that you control your behavior.

  1. Real love is not a fairy tale. Real love is equal parts struggle, suffering and satisfaction.
  2. Real love sometimes is not how it is shown in fairy tales. Sorry, I know you love the little mermaid and sleeping beauty but in real life love is work and struggle.
  3. Your smile illuminates the world of whoever looks at you, so don’t forget to smile every day… because what matters is that your world is also illuminated.
  4. Ask for forgiveness when you must and always forgive. Remember that you don’t forgive to do someone else a favor, you forgive to free your heart from useless suffering.
  5. No one has to rescue you, you are the one who must rescue yourself. There are no blue princes, and you don’t need them either!
  6. Say ‘NO’ whenever you should and NEVER feel guilty about doing it. You can say ‘no’ to anyone, whoever they are …
  7. Only by being yourself the world will be at your feet and you will discover wonderful people and places. Do not try to be who you are not … because you are wonderful, with your defects and your virtues.
  8. Never love another person when you feel lonely, only do it when you really want to.
  9. It is better to be alone than in bad company.
  10. You will meet people, both men and women, who will judge and criticize you. Don’t listen to them, smile at them and go your way.
  11. You will never be liked by everyone and you will never be liked by everyone. And this is good to happen. Just stay away from those you don’t like.
  12. Life is made to be lived.
  13. Whatever you are living, I have lived it before, so never hesitate to ask me for advice to guide you on your way.
  14. Living quietly, will help you live happily.
  15. Remember the most important thing: I will ALWAYS love you and I will ALWAYS support you and be by your side.

These 15 things are essential for you to teach your daughter, of course, you can add more important things that you consider are essential for you or her. In any case, what you should never question is your unconditional love for her. If she learns all of this before age 10, she will grow up to be a happy girl in good emotional health.…